It is a 6 page guide with the opening questions:
- Why do some women attract friendship and success
- How can you make the most of your looks at any age
- Men, what is it that draws and holds them
It is in 3 parts: the first being a survey to establish how attractive you really are. The second is how to be attractive to men. The third is how to be attractive at any age. I thought I’d share it with you to see how opinions differ today (or not). And maybe enlighten you so you can work just that little bit harder!!
Lets start with the survey. “How to discover the true you” is to “set you thinking-possibly to test your courage”.
Phyllis Digby Morton writes this article. She asks “attractiveness, what is it? Lovely figure, pretty face, soft voice, smart clothes? All of these. None of them. Some women have a way with them despite an almost lack of dress sense or a single lovely figure. They can draw attention away from the most stunningly pretty rival”….Ok, true so far I suppose.
“Could the secret lie in infectious good humour, or in a capacity of enjoying life?” Maybe
Or “could it be the art of making other people feel themselves attractive?” Now I’m getting a tad lost here. Does she mean that if I convince you I’m attractive then I am. Or am I attractive if I make you feel attractive? Gosh this is beginning to be hard work.
She goes on: “Sympathy, placidity, serenity will prove irresistible to some. Gaiety, impetuousness, vivacity will lure others. Haughtiness, stand offishness, even arrogance have an undoubted appeal for a few.” What?
“While wit in any shape, even wit strongly spiced with cattiness, will attract, round its owner, a pretty-near-permanent circle of fascinated admirers (particularly men)”
Ok now I’m even more confused. Should I be catty, stand offish, arrogant and still be attractive..surely not?
Your Appearance. You need to tick which ones you are, or what your friends think you are so you can understand what you need to work on. Are you ready for this ladies????
Face: pretty/quite pretty/plain but nice (how kind)/ordinary
Hair: lovely/could easily be lovely/don’t make the best of it/rather neglect it
Hair style: tops, always/tops,sometimes/doesnt really suit you (hey let me down gently)/spoils you
Complexion: clear and lovely/nice most of the time/never looks really clear/bad
Figure: perfect/fairly good/too scrawny/too heavy
Posture: noticeably good/good when you remember/not too good/ungraceful
Hands: pleasure to look at/lovely on special occasions/just get by (hey I’m a working mum remember)/neglected
Make up: work of art, always/good sometimes/slapdash/just don’t bother (ha ha)
Dress sense: excellent/mostly good/somehow a bit lacking/undeveloped
Teeth: white, lovely/nice , average/could be whiter/time you had them seen to
Personal daintiness: bandbox fresh (er what?)/mostly perfect/not always particular/in need of a helpful hint
And that’s it. How to enlighten your friend on how attractive they are. There is more…we will move onto your personality later. For now have a think ladies…maybe ask a friend to help! By then end it will be a help, Phyliss promises.